Beautifully written. I love how you show that this isn’t just about kink…it’s a sacred act of reclaiming the wild, the innocent, and the sensual self. Letting go of the noise, the shame, the projections…and returning to the purity of your own truth. There’s deep magic in embracing what was once shame and reclaiming as sacred what we were once told to hide. 🖤🖤✨
This is a Bookmarked writing that I will be sharing often. The why of that is in the profound. Most BDSM writing is the author leading the reader on a Journey be it real or not.
This is profound in the understanding that The Daddy Dominant has great responsibility with respect to the Little that goes far deeper with more complexity that most forms of BDSM roleplay ever touch (yes trollplay but staying on topic).
The DD may be the Captain AKA Ships Master however the little is the navigator at all times. You highlight that point and drive it home with great understanding and reason.
Absolutely a phenomenal read that had me revisiting the past and taking measure. Thank you
Oh my love, this is so beautiful and deeply moving. Stirs me deep within. I have been on my own profound journey with this these past years & yes what you speak to here, the sacredness, the witnessing, the holding, the somatic experience… it’s everything. And my goodness how exquisitely you’ve expressed all the subtlety of this dynamic. Grateful for your beauty & softness & the power of your vulnerability and voice. Grateful to know you and call you my friend. I love you xxx
thank you love, i'm so so grateful for your beautiful friendship and support and it means so much to me that this touched you so deeply. love you endlessly sister of my soul ♥♥♥
I was already somewhat familiar with the topic, but I took the time to read everything carefully not just a quick glance, but with real attention. I also looked up similar articles and did a bit of research on my own to understand it better. Only after that did I feel ready to share my thoughts here.
Thank you for sharing this. The way you describe DDLG with such honesty, vulnerability and tenderness really moved me. It’s so refreshing to see someone strip away the shame and show the deep care, trust, and healing that can exist in these dynamics.
You reminded me that there’s nothing wrong with needing softness, safety, or being held in our most vulnerable parts. I’m grateful for your voice.
This is a breathtaking expose, on the healing that can be found through a true and loving bdsm relationship. Thank you for taking the time and giving of yourself in the writing of this lived experience. Thank you for opening your heart and your mind to us
I really needed this perspective. I haven’t always understood the dynamic, perhaps because my exposure to it has been mostly perverted and over-fetishized. Seeing this as a healing process makes me even more interested. Understanding the potential for healing on both sides has really opened my eyes.
Thank you for sharing this.
I was uncomfortable the first time she called me “Daddy.” I get it, now. I cherish the role. I’m honored to explore her “little girl.”
oh, this is such a beautiful comment to receive. thank you so much for sharing, and it means so much to me that this has touched you so deeply and shifted something in your perspective. yes, when it's done well it's so healing and freeing for both. ♥
oh, this is so beautiful. it means so much to me that my words have created that safety for you. really appreciate having you here, and thank you so very much for your support 🖤✨
This felt like a masterclass in erotic psychology, somatics, and myth. I’m struck by how much it reframes kink—not as escape, but as integration. Would love to see a future piece on how partners can safely initiate this kind of healing dynamic together.
Yes! A deep hidden well somewhere in my soul I came close to it once I find it in dreams. I’m hoping to find the female who needs it so we can both perform in this play.
Beautifully written. I love how you show that this isn’t just about kink…it’s a sacred act of reclaiming the wild, the innocent, and the sensual self. Letting go of the noise, the shame, the projections…and returning to the purity of your own truth. There’s deep magic in embracing what was once shame and reclaiming as sacred what we were once told to hide. 🖤🖤✨
yes yes yes soooo much yes. 🙌🏼 thank you so much for these words beauty, really very grateful 🖤🖤🖤✨
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This is a Bookmarked writing that I will be sharing often. The why of that is in the profound. Most BDSM writing is the author leading the reader on a Journey be it real or not.
This is profound in the understanding that The Daddy Dominant has great responsibility with respect to the Little that goes far deeper with more complexity that most forms of BDSM roleplay ever touch (yes trollplay but staying on topic).
The DD may be the Captain AKA Ships Master however the little is the navigator at all times. You highlight that point and drive it home with great understanding and reason.
Absolutely a phenomenal read that had me revisiting the past and taking measure. Thank you
thank you for this incredibly beautiful and thoughtful reply, it means the world to me to have my work received this way. so grateful ♥
Oh my love, this is so beautiful and deeply moving. Stirs me deep within. I have been on my own profound journey with this these past years & yes what you speak to here, the sacredness, the witnessing, the holding, the somatic experience… it’s everything. And my goodness how exquisitely you’ve expressed all the subtlety of this dynamic. Grateful for your beauty & softness & the power of your vulnerability and voice. Grateful to know you and call you my friend. I love you xxx
thank you love, i'm so so grateful for your beautiful friendship and support and it means so much to me that this touched you so deeply. love you endlessly sister of my soul ♥♥♥
This is not mere ink on paper
It is a trembling mirror for the soul.
It speaks where silence once screamed,
Where desire aches through tender holes.
With reverence, it touches shame’s face
And invites us into sacred grace.
In every soft command and kneel,
It teaches how even the wounded can heal.
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When rooted in trust and consent, BDSM can become more than play it becomes a ritual of release.
A space where pain is voiced, shame is held gently, and even old wounds can breathe toward healing.
yes yes, you say this so beautifully and poetically, thank you ♥♥♥
I was already somewhat familiar with the topic, but I took the time to read everything carefully not just a quick glance, but with real attention. I also looked up similar articles and did a bit of research on my own to understand it better. Only after that did I feel ready to share my thoughts here.
i love so much that it sparked a whole unfolding journey for you, thank you for sharing ♥
Thank YOU for sharing 🙂🖤
Thank you for sharing this. The way you describe DDLG with such honesty, vulnerability and tenderness really moved me. It’s so refreshing to see someone strip away the shame and show the deep care, trust, and healing that can exist in these dynamics.
You reminded me that there’s nothing wrong with needing softness, safety, or being held in our most vulnerable parts. I’m grateful for your voice.
thank you so much for this incredibly beautiful and thoughtful reply, feels so good to receive ♥
This is a breathtaking expose, on the healing that can be found through a true and loving bdsm relationship. Thank you for taking the time and giving of yourself in the writing of this lived experience. Thank you for opening your heart and your mind to us
thank you so much for reading and for this beautiful, thoughtful reply. i'm so grateful for your support. ♥
My support will always be present and personal
♥
I really needed this perspective. I haven’t always understood the dynamic, perhaps because my exposure to it has been mostly perverted and over-fetishized. Seeing this as a healing process makes me even more interested. Understanding the potential for healing on both sides has really opened my eyes.
Thank you for sharing this.
I was uncomfortable the first time she called me “Daddy.” I get it, now. I cherish the role. I’m honored to explore her “little girl.”
oh, this is such a beautiful comment to receive. thank you so much for sharing, and it means so much to me that this has touched you so deeply and shifted something in your perspective. yes, when it's done well it's so healing and freeing for both. ♥
My path to myself widens, and seems much safer, after reading your words. Thank you :-) ONWARD :-))
oh, this is so beautiful. it means so much to me that my words have created that safety for you. really appreciate having you here, and thank you so very much for your support 🖤✨
Beautiful
thank you ♥
This felt like a masterclass in erotic psychology, somatics, and myth. I’m struck by how much it reframes kink—not as escape, but as integration. Would love to see a future piece on how partners can safely initiate this kind of healing dynamic together.
thank you so very much, this was such a beautiful comment to receive. i will definitely keep that in mind ♥
So so profound and moving.
thank you, it means so very much to me that you think so ♥♥♥
Beautifully said. I'm pleased that you captured the experience so viscerally, I hope more people feel it.
thank you, this means so very much to me ♥︎
Thank you, thank you, thank you 🌹🌱🌹
you are so welcome. thank you so much for reading, I'm very grateful for your presence ♥︎♥︎♥︎
Yes! A deep hidden well somewhere in my soul I came close to it once I find it in dreams. I’m hoping to find the female who needs it so we can both perform in this play.
thank you for sharing these words, i believe you'll find it ♥
thank you so much ♥ this and many things the vanilla world could do with getting rattled into their skulls haha